Can I stay in the apple family and pay with my own credit or debit card?

Hi,

I am about to head off to college and I want to make my own purchases for apps and other digital things without charging my mom who is the family organizer. I also may end up buying things I don’t want my mom to see so it would be nice to have privacy. How can I use my own card on the same family?


Any idea on how to make that possible. This seems like an issue that should have been solved long ago.


Thanks,

Ari

Posted on Aug 10, 2023 12:14 PM

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Posted on Aug 10, 2023 1:00 PM

See How to share purchases with your family - Apple Support.


Turn off purchase sharing and stop sharing a payment method

If you’re the family organiser and you want family members to pay for purchases themselves, turn off purchase sharing: 

  1. Go to your Purchase Sharing settings in Settings on your iPhone or iPad or in System Settings on your Mac.
  2. Turn off purchase sharing:
    • On your iPhone or iPad, tap Stop Purchase Sharing.
    • On your Mac, click Turn Off, then click Stop Purchase Sharing.

When purchase sharing is turned off, you’ll stop sharing your purchases and lose access to the purchases made by your other family members. However, you can continue to share subscriptions such as Apple TV+ and Apple Arcade, but everyone must use their own payment method for purchases. 


tt2

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Aug 10, 2023 1:00 PM in response to TheSketchMasterStudios

See How to share purchases with your family - Apple Support.


Turn off purchase sharing and stop sharing a payment method

If you’re the family organiser and you want family members to pay for purchases themselves, turn off purchase sharing: 

  1. Go to your Purchase Sharing settings in Settings on your iPhone or iPad or in System Settings on your Mac.
  2. Turn off purchase sharing:
    • On your iPhone or iPad, tap Stop Purchase Sharing.
    • On your Mac, click Turn Off, then click Stop Purchase Sharing.

When purchase sharing is turned off, you’ll stop sharing your purchases and lose access to the purchases made by your other family members. However, you can continue to share subscriptions such as Apple TV+ and Apple Arcade, but everyone must use their own payment method for purchases. 


tt2

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