find out how much icloud storage ive used

This article tells you how to manage your iCloud storage --> Manage your iCloud storage - Apple Support - including seeing how much storage you have and how to delete items stored in iCloud such as backups, photos, files, mail, messages and voice memos.

See the following Apple Support article for information on checking how much iCloud storage is used: Check your iCloud storage on any device - Apple Support

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