how do I turn off private wifi address on macbook. there isn’t a toggle like there is on the phone i’m wifi setting

Hi abbywoods,

That feature would not be available on macOS at this time. You can see more info about the feature on iOS, iPadOS and Apple Watch devices here: Use private Wi-Fi addresses on iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, and Apple Watch - Apple Support

If you're having trouble connecting to a specific network, but not others on your Mac we'd advise reaching out to either your internet provider or network manager.

Cheers!