Hello CNOCCA22,
Please be sure to check out all of the information outlined in the link you came from, which explains how Ask to Buy works, and instances where the family organizer won't receive an Ask to Buy request, and may be helpful: Approve what kids buy with Ask to Buy
How Ask to Buy works
With Ask to Buy, when kids want to buy or download a new item, they send a request to the family organizer. The family organizer can use their own device to approve or decline the request. For example, if a child wants to buy an app, the family organizer can see the app and decide whether to allow it.
If the family organizer approves the request and completes the purchase, the item automatically downloads to the child's device. If the family organizer declines the request, no purchase or download will take place. If a child redownloads a purchase, downloads a shared purchase, installs an update, or uses a redemption code, the family organizer won’t receive a request.
For in-app purchases, you can require a password for purchases, prevent certain types of purchases, or disable purchasing completely. This link explains the options to restrict in-app purchases and may be helpful as well: Prevent in-app purchases from the App Store
Thanks!