Phone got locked out-by someone trying to guess the passcode. Is there an other way to unlocked it or do i have to wait the 1 hour

You can wait an hour or reset your phone. Doing the reset will wipe out all data on the phone so make sure you have a backup if going this route.

If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled or unavailable -

Click on the link for instructions on how to reset your passcode without a computer if you have iOS 15.2 or higher.

If you see an iPhone or iPad unavailable message or Security Lockout screen - Apple Support

Click on the link for instructions on how to reset your passcode using a computer.

If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

You'll have to wait or you'll have to erase the device.