Docking station recommendation?

I run my MacBooks mostly in clamshell mode (i.e. lid closed, connected to external display, keyboard, mouse, and ethernet). And I have been struggling with flaky USB hubs and adapters.

My current setup:

• StarTech USB-C to Ethernet Adapter with 3-Port USB 3.0 Hub and Power Delivery
• Anker 4-port USB 3.0 hub, connected to the hub above
• StarTech USB-C to DP adapter

And I use two USB-C extension cables to connect them to my MacBook. But sometimes I'd lose keyboard, mouse, and Ethernet for no reason. And they would come back after unplugging and replugging multiple times. I have also tried:

• Anker 3-Port USB 3.0 HUB with Gigabit Ethernet adapter (Gigabit Ether net + 3 x USB 3.0)
• Cable Matters USB C Multiport Adapter (with PD, DP, and 2 x USB 2.0)

And this setup isn't a whole lot better. I believe both StarTech and Anker use RealTek 8153 chip for their Ethernet adapter. RealTek 8153 is known to be flaky on Macs. But that still doesn't explain the flakiness of the USB Hub :(.

Both setups are flaky with both of my MacBook Pros (~2019, 2020 models, Intel i7 based). And both setups seem to be reliable with all PC laptops I have tried.

So far, my best experience is with a Dell UltraSharp 34 monitor that comes with a USB hub and Ethernet adapter (which also uses Realtek 8153).

So, I wonder if anyone has a good setup that they would recommend. Here's the list of features I need, in descending order:

• 1 x DisplayPort (4K, 60Hz)
• Power Delivery (at least 60W)
• 2 x USB 2.0 (for keyboard and mouse) + 2 x USB 3.0 (for thumb drives and misc peripherals), but 4 x USB 2.0 also works
• Gigabit Ethernet (not strictly necessary, but it's nice for transferring files on LAN)

If one adapter/docking station includes all the features, that'd be great. But I can also live with two. Thanks!