Iphone 11 stuck on updating white screen with black apple logo

I'm upgrading to iOS 17 and it doesn't seem to finish. I had been in a constant cycle of waiting and force restarting my iPhone but to no avail, IT JUST DOESN'T FINISH UPDATING. It loads until the very end and then stops there, with maybe a pixel left on the loading line. Every time I force restart, it just takes me back to the "swipe up to upgrade" screen and when I do, it acts like it's updating again & does the same thing at the very end... Is there a way to fix this? I also tried connecting to my laptop (not Mac) and it needs me to give access through my iPhone, but I can't exactly do that if it's stuck in the infinite loop of doom... please can someone help out with this??