can a macbook on one network access a imac on another network

im in TX with a MacBook Pro, my mom is in HI with an IMAC I want to be able to help her do things and fix things while we are far apart. How? I know there is a remote access but I can't figure out how to use it??

MacBook Pro 13″, macOS 11.6

Posted on Sep 26, 2023 2:37 PM

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Posted on Sep 27, 2023 12:19 PM

Possibly the simplest and easiest way for you to achieve this is to use the Messages App that is built into MacOS. You both need an Apple ID and a good/robust broadband connection with as much upstream/downstream bandwidth your ISP can provide on the package you have.


How does it work? You send your mum a message on the Messages App. She receives it and from there she selects one of the options on the Buddies pull down menu (as below):



Basically she's asking you to access/use/control her screen. The other option is for you to ask her to share her screen. Either way you or she will get a message asking to accept or decline the invitation. Once you accept you can control her screen as well as talk to her at the same time.


In reality (which is why I mentioned the broadband bandwidth requirements) it can be clunky and echoey. But it can get the job done well enough provided you're patient with it. Other alternatives are Teamviewer and similar. If you're familiar with Zoom or Teams I think there's a way to use them as well although it's not something I've ever explored fully. Whichever method you end up with I'm sure it will give you and your mum what you want.


What I would recommend you not to use is ARD (Apple Remote Desktop) the subject of this forum. You'd have to pay for it and you would have to have some knowledge of firewalls, IP addressing and general networking expertise. No offence intended but I doubt this is something you would want to tackle?


Good luck.

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Sep 27, 2023 12:19 PM in response to Pikake1962

Possibly the simplest and easiest way for you to achieve this is to use the Messages App that is built into MacOS. You both need an Apple ID and a good/robust broadband connection with as much upstream/downstream bandwidth your ISP can provide on the package you have.


How does it work? You send your mum a message on the Messages App. She receives it and from there she selects one of the options on the Buddies pull down menu (as below):



Basically she's asking you to access/use/control her screen. The other option is for you to ask her to share her screen. Either way you or she will get a message asking to accept or decline the invitation. Once you accept you can control her screen as well as talk to her at the same time.


In reality (which is why I mentioned the broadband bandwidth requirements) it can be clunky and echoey. But it can get the job done well enough provided you're patient with it. Other alternatives are Teamviewer and similar. If you're familiar with Zoom or Teams I think there's a way to use them as well although it's not something I've ever explored fully. Whichever method you end up with I'm sure it will give you and your mum what you want.


What I would recommend you not to use is ARD (Apple Remote Desktop) the subject of this forum. You'd have to pay for it and you would have to have some knowledge of firewalls, IP addressing and general networking expertise. No offence intended but I doubt this is something you would want to tackle?


Good luck.

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