With all due respect, I have tried to do exactly as you describe - a number of times - except that I do not have the options you have to make it work. I appreciate your efforts to be helpful and am grateful that someone is trying to share what worked for them.
Where things do not seem to be the same is that your menu options sound very different to mine and I suspect for the other person who has also asked some questions seeking clarity on how you managed to get this to work when neither of us can.
Incidentally, I have done some investigating and it does appear that the calendar app cannot be removed the way you are describing? Bringing me back to the point - you seem to have different options on your operating system.
- My Calendar app is not listed with the 'installed apps' as an optional app. It is in the list of default apps and it cannot be disabled or deleted via the Watch App on my iphone
- In other words, when I go to the listings of apps installed on my watch, there is no disable option on the Calendar.
- I am using the most up to date versions of iOS and WatchOS.
Thanks again for taking the time to share your advice and to repeat it. There really is no need to reply unless you can see why there is a difference between your operating system and mine: given we are both stating we are using the most up to date versions.