Remote access via Icloud to my mothers phone as guardian
I'm the guardian for my 89-year-old mother but live across the country. Her iPhone is on my carrier's account and her phone is set to auto backup. I'm trying to log in to her iCloud account and download her device backup to monitor other family members communications as we have a problem sibling living close by. The problem is when icloud goes to authenticate the code goes to her phone and she rarely responds to me. Is there another way to authenticate without using her device? TIA
iPhone 14 Pro, 17