How can I tell if someone is connected to my phone?

My ex and I broke up - she has charged my Apple password how can I reset it - she is the manager in my account now - is what it’s saying I tried to use my Apple ID it says wrong password and then when I went to reset it - they sent her a code that I needed to put in my phone and she refused to give it to me what can I do?

Posted on Oct 14, 2023 11:57 PM

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Posted on Oct 15, 2023 2:17 AM

Your Apple ID is compromised, she has changed your password and changed the trusted phone number


See this instructions on how to regain control of your Apple ID


  1. Change your Apple ID password
  2. If your Apple ID password has been changed by someone else, reset your password.
  3. Go to appleid.apple.com to update any of personal or security information that isn't correct or that you don't recognize.
  4. Check with your email address* provider to make sure that you control every email address associated with your Apple ID. If you don't control an email address, work with your email provider to regain control or use a different email address.


If you can't reset your Apple ID password or sign in

If you can't reset your Apple ID password or sign in to appleid.apple.com, go to iforgot.apple.com to start account recovery and regain access after an account recovery waiting period.

Learn more about account recovery


And see this link for further reference

If you think your Apple ID has been compromised - Apple Support



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Oct 15, 2023 2:17 AM in response to SammyDeas

Your Apple ID is compromised, she has changed your password and changed the trusted phone number


See this instructions on how to regain control of your Apple ID


  1. Change your Apple ID password
  2. If your Apple ID password has been changed by someone else, reset your password.
  3. Go to appleid.apple.com to update any of personal or security information that isn't correct or that you don't recognize.
  4. Check with your email address* provider to make sure that you control every email address associated with your Apple ID. If you don't control an email address, work with your email provider to regain control or use a different email address.


If you can't reset your Apple ID password or sign in

If you can't reset your Apple ID password or sign in to appleid.apple.com, go to iforgot.apple.com to start account recovery and regain access after an account recovery waiting period.

Learn more about account recovery


And see this link for further reference

If you think your Apple ID has been compromised - Apple Support



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