Hey i forgot my passcode and dnt want to reset my phone

There is no way to reset your iPhone, without erasing your data, sorry. If you've been backing up your phone, you'll be able to restore your phone from the most recent backup after you have erased it. If you haven't, it's too late to not lose your data.

Follow the directions in this link --> If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

You don't have a choice in the matter.