Why am I forced to use icloud to sync reminders?

Why are we forced to use iCloud to sync reminders?

I sync USB hardwired never cloud. OG nerd. I will never use iCloud even if you pay me 1 million!

This is such a simple task yet it seams like I have to write my own software to force the reminders to sync manually?

This is 1 of the reasons i kicked MS office to curb… The old PALM software is better than what is offered today as a business owner. TRUE STATEMENT even the voice recognition is better than Siri is today.

XP is still best software to date. I cannot use any of my old software that I used for building.

So i kicked Microsoft to curb.

It almost seems time for a new operating systems if this continues.

My email server does not offer reminder sync currently. I should be able to sync reminders if I plug hardwire into my mini mac from iPhone to mini mac and vise versa

Every time i get update, iCloud wants to access my phone. Not a chance. Just like same reason there is never a need to pay ransomware money. only morons pay ransomware.

Please help sync reminders without being forced to use iCloud

Thank You your desperate nerd