my iphone is changing its settings on it own without my permission why?

sickensiphoneXr wrote:

like the sharing my locations and why would my systems services be using homekit and find my and siri when not even setup or turned on i also seen a few mins ago remote something ui looked it up on google an said i am being monitored by remote or being hacked what the heck how do i make it stop it gurrrrr

There is no known virus/malware/spyware/hack for a non jailbroken phone.

And your explanation of what settings doesn't make sense at all.

sickensiphoneXr wrote:

my iphonexr setting are changing without my permission why?

what settings?