linking Alexa to your iPhone calendar

Has anyone solved this issue I’m reading all these old notes and I’m not seeing this is ever been resolved are you telling me I seriously have to change my Apple ID to another email or domain an order just to link my calendar????? this is ridiculous you think after 2017 they would’ve figured out a solution to this! Get it together Apple and Amazon. I’m late to the game because I don’t want somebody always listening on my conversations, but finally broke down and got one of these things and no one has seriously figured this out since 2017? That’s sad. I’m not changing my Apple ID so it looks like to me they’re just not compatible. So now I have to have two calendars wow that’s great. I love all these tech companies start all this crap and then never figure s**t out even after years!