Brian Davidson2 wrote:
Up front I'll admit I have not had time to troubleshoot. However, our family is finding that AirDrop either does not work or is very unreliable since the last round of IOS/Mac updates. With all devices on the latest major version (maybe not all on the latest update), Airdrop is not working. Either we get an "Airdrop failed" message or it simply times out.
If I find any solution or pattern once I troubleshoot, I'll post it back.
We have an iMac 2015 running Monterey and MacBook Pros running Ventura and Somona, plus iPhones on the latest iOS. Have been Airdropping a lot between them in all directions. So I think the software works. However when something stops working like this after applying an OS update, that usually indicates that something else (third party software or tool) installed no longer behaves properly under Sonoma and can interfere or conflict, causing the problems you see. This could be a matter of updating the third party software, or removing it.
You can run Etrecheck, a free tool that produces an anonymous report of your configuration. You should post that output here and people with many years experience will scrutinize it for such conflicts or problems. You can review the report before posting it here to verify that it contains no identifying info. Etrecheck is open source, by the way.
In addition to "cleaner" software and third party "Security" tools, as per PRP_53's excellent suggestion above, if you have VPNs or other network monitoring tools those can interfere. Look especially for any third party tool that has anything to do with networking, bluetooth, or WiFi, these can impact Airdrop.