Ask To Buy Request Being Sent to Email (Apple ID)

Ask to buy notifications are no longer coming through my apple devices (iPhone, iMac, iPad). I am the organizer and have followed several other articles on how to resolve Ask To Buy issues, such as software update, restarting the devices, etc. However, none of it as worked. My wife gets the notifications via text message and in that text message it says the message was also sent to my email (apple ID). However, my email doesn't accept text messages so I never receive them. Has this happened to anyone else and is there a solution?