Although this has nothing to do with your current issue, you left a lot of performance on the table when you selected that SSD model:
Drives:
disk0 - Lexar SSD NS100 256GB 256.06 GB (Solid State - TRIM: Yes)
Internal SATA 3 Gigabit Serial ATA
The base 2012 Macbook Pro 13 shipped with an SATA 3GB hard drive, but the internal HD bus is SATA 6GB. ANY drive replacement should be with and SATA 6GB drive.
Your drive scores:
Performance:
System Load: 3.92 (1 min ago) 14.81 (5 min ago) 10.24 (15 min ago)
Nominal I/O usage: 0.96 MB/s
File system: 32.09 seconds
Write speed: 257 MB/s
Read speed: 270 MB/s
My 2012 13-inch also has an SSD conversion, an SATA 6GB drive from OWC. My drive:
Drives:
disk0 - Mercury Electra 6G SSD 500.11 GB (Solid State - TRIM: Yes)
Internal SATA 6 Gigabit Serial ATA
My scores from EtreCheck:
Performance:
System Load: 1.61 (1 min ago) 0.99 (5 min ago) 0.81 (15 min ago)
Nominal I/O usage: 0.00 MB/s
File system: 24.17 seconds
Write speed: 485 MB/s
Read speed: 476 MB/s
You can confirm the bus speed from System Information > SATA/SATA Express

I agree with HWTech that, in that Macbook Pro model, the DH cable is the first thing to suspect in the face of odd symptoms. Visual inspection is relatively useless. For under US$15, just replace it.
Any time I service or upgrade the internal drive in those Macbook Pro models, I replace the cable as well.