app developer hacking my family controling my ability to communicate

Nobody here can assist with this.

Developer access isn’t the master key that you’re imagining it to be, and doesn’t provide a path to bypass security and access devices and networks. That whether via AirPlay, or otherwise.

Enrolling in the developer program does provide the ability to do on-device app testing, but your enrollment is not relevant to and not a path to resolving your reported device and network security issues.

Developer enrollment enables limited access for testing-enabled devices.

Developer enrollment doesn’t grant access on devices not enabled for testing, or access to remote exploits whether possibly via AirPlay or otherwise.

The Apple Developer program Account Holder status is intended as part of an organization that is managing a group of developers working together on apps, and—beyond enrollment being a prerequisite—is unrelated to program enrollment and unrelated to device or network access. It is part of coordinating a team of developers.

Are iPhone exploits possible? Yes. Based on available information, iPhone exploits are also quite rare, very targeted, and are very expensive. A remote exploit with persistence can be worth most of two million dollars, and the related tooling is worth much more.

Are you a target? We don’t know. If you are a target of a well-funded adversary, you’re also past the scale and scope of what assistance can be provided here, too.

Making these discussions all the more difficult, it is ~impossible to prove a negative. Nobody here can prove you’re not hacked.

And nobody here can help with a case such as “They taken control of my families devices and network”, as that’s a whole lot of detailed work and direct access to it all, past the usual and generic recommendations to reset all passwords, reset all devices, reload all, and to particularly replace any older or outdated gear, etc.

Firstly: IMEI Number will confirm its your phone

Secondly: shutdown your home wifi reset and change login details & passwords

And change the name of your phone, wifi & bluetooth names.. see how that goes

Disabledfatherof7 wrote:

They've also had my phone physically for a night. When I went to get it fix they said this wasn't even my phone? Unfortunately there's a group in my community all doing this they're routing everything through my devices not just mobile. They had my PS5 as my gateway with three of my neighbors wifi were left as registered network's. I wish someone could help I can't even contact apple or use the apple support app.

And again, nobody here can help with a case such as you’re reporting here, as that’s a whole lot of detailed work and direct access to all of the equipment, now quite possibly including neighbors’ equipment.

Or can help with the reported theft and return, for that matter.

Not past the usual and generic recommendations to reset all passwords, reset all devices, reload all, and to particularly replace any older or outdated gear, etc.

And I’d wonder if some folks with authorized access to some or all of this equipment are joining together equipment forming a mesh or multiple AP network, as there can be reasons to do that. That would be much less costly (in terms of not needing massively expensive multi-platform exploits), and might even save some money and improve coverage, depending on the particular local situation.

Disabledfatherof7 wrote:

yeah there's a Bluetooth signal that seamed to float around my house but I walked down the road and my neighbors all had the same strong Bluetooth signal. And at the end of my street there was one labels mesh network 1

Again, you are reporting issues and concerns and exploits far beyond what can be addressed around here.

That is not possible.