email messages to one recipient being rerouted elsewhere
I am sending to one user but these messages are not getting through. They are going to someone else who is responding and trying to defraud me. I know this is coming from someone else as the responses are "off". Bitdefender has not detected anything. The person I am trying to contact - their messages are getting through to me AFAIK. Rest of my emails are OK, just this one user. The person I am in touch with reported a crash just before this started. Anyone got any ideas whether this is likely at my end or theirs? Any thoughts on how to proceed? (we're using other ids to get around this but it's cumbersome).
Running Big Sur and using gmail at my end and a private domain (@user-name.com) at the other end.
MacBook Pro 15″, macOS 11.7