Iphone and PC being monitored

That doesn't do any good since they have had physical access to the phone and pc for well over 2 year. There doesn't seem to be anything I can do to end they monitoring of the phone and pc. We are on the same wifi network and the password to that is known as well. If i purchase a non-apple, not-ios phone would that end the monitoring? They might even have somethin like mspy or ispy or other stealth downloads. Of cours a non-apple phone would resolve the phone monitoring but then I still have the pc monitoring. I even installed norton 360 on the pc and a full scan found nothing so there is a connection between my iphone and pc which is allowing the monitoring.