Unable to connect my iphone 14 Pro Max to Apple carplay after last ios update

I am able to connect with Bluetooth. When the phone is plugged into the CRV it will charge. Using my wife's android phone, I am able to connect to Android CarPlay. Everything was working fine before I updated my phone to ios 17.5.1. All of the settings on my iphone seems to be correct. When I go to general then carplay in my settings, the available cars won't update. It is wired only. Any ideas?