As far as I know, you can update any Mac that support Sierra to at least High Sierra.
Whether you can update your Mac beyond that will depend on its model and hardware release year. (You can find that information using the About This Mac item in the Apple () menu.). If you post that information (no serial #s, please!), we can look up how far you can upgrade.
If your copy of the High Sierra installer is too old, its security certificate may have expired, in which case you will be told that it is damaged when you try to run it. If you run into that problem, use the High Sierra App Store link
How to download and install macOS - Apple Support
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I would suggest making a bootable clone backup of your existing Sierra system before attempting any upgrade … both to protect your data, and because I'm not sure how reliable Internet Recovery / installation of old versions of macOS (like Sierra and High Sierra) is these days.
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High Sierra probably has a newer version of Safari than Sierra does, but that version of Safari is also old, and your husband's banking site might not want to work with it, either. Firefox 115 ESR runs on Sierra and High Sierra, and may let you access some sites that older versions of Safari would not.
Mozilla Support – Firefox users on macOS 10.12, 10.13 and 10.14 moving to Extended Support Release