LIFX matter bulbs disconnecting

Does anyone have LIFX matter bulbs Par38 working consistently with Apple home? Matter seems half baked to me and not ready for real usage. Apple home continues to languish from lack of development over the years. My LIFX bulbs work perfectly with LIFX app. But connecting via matter to Apple home. Wait a week and get the dreaded “no response” nothing helps. Restart HomePods, Apple TVs, router, get a ladder and take the bulb out, etc… eventually I get it working… then it breaks again. LIFX says it Apple. Apple says it’s LIFX problem. I have 150+ HK devices….the only issues I have are 11 matter bulbs. No ownership. Any suggestions would be welcomed?