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• Go to  > System Settings > Network > [choose Details on your connected network] > Proxies. Make sure all switches are turned off.
• Remove NordVPN using the installer they provide.

After that has been done, run EtreCheck and post the results.

No Problem. I assume you have changed on Passcode on any iPhone and login Password for your Mac, but I have included links below for reference and other tips for each platform.

Mac:

• Change login Password

Change the login password on Mac - Apple Support

• Change your Apple ID Password in case they also know that.

Change your Apple Account password - Apple Support

• If you have any other concerns on your Mac where you feel someone else has access, then describe what you see or provide a screenshot. There is nothing else from the EtreCheck report that would indicate any nefarious software installed that would allow access.

iPhone:

• Run Safety Check.

How Safety Check on iPhone works to keep you safe - Apple Support

• This will allow you to review Trusted Phone numbers on your account and review any information that you are sharing to others.