Are we stuck with a feminine pink heart as the iMessage default?

Please tell me there’s a way to change this awful update. Making the default iMessage heart pink is absurd.

I don’t know a single masculine male who wants to use a pink heart.

It’s so annoying needing to scroll all the way to right and search emojis to find a heart that isn’t pink.

Either choose a gender neutral heart, or make it customizable on the next update.