tcarder wrote:
It is clear I am not explaining my situation well at all. All I am trying to do is to make my mini 2009 and mini 2014 accessible to the mini 2020.
There are a few ways to do that.
Target Disk Mode (Intel-based Macs)
One is to boot the 2009 Mac mini and 2014 Mac mini into a special mode where they act as external disk drives, and nothing else. That is called Target Disk Mode – and here, "Target" refers to the Mac running in the special mode, regardless of the direction in which you are copying files.
Transfer files between two Mac computers using target disk mode - Apple Support
Whether you can use this mode is a bit more complicated. A 2020 Mac mini would be an Apple Silicon Mac mini, running Big Sur or later. According to the Support article,
"If either of the computers has macOS 11 or later installed, you must connect the two computers using a Thunderbolt cable."
This would be impossible with the 2009 Mac mini – which does not support Thunderbolt. It would be possible to make a Thunderbolt connection to the 2014 Mac mini, but it has an older form of Thunderbolt, so you would need both a $50 Apple Thunderbolt 3-to-2 adapter and a $30+ Thunderbolt 1/2 cable. It would have been nice if Apple had kept support for USB Target Disk Mode in Big Sur and later – but they didn't.
"Target Disk Mode" (Apple-Silicon-based Mac)
You could set up your 2020 (M1) Mac mini to act as an external drive for one of your older Mac minis. In this case, the connection does not need to be a Thunderbolt one. It could be a Thunderbolt one, but a USB one would work just fine. You can find the instructions for this here:
Transfer files between a Mac with Apple silicon and another Mac - Apple Support
Unfortunately, this doesn't seem to match your use case (2020 Mac as "computer", 2009/2014 Macs as "disks").
File Sharing
You could set up your 2009 Mac mini and 2014 Mac mini to share some of the files on their disks over the network and then mount the network volumes on your 2020 Mac mini.
Set up file sharing on Mac - Apple Support
Connect your Mac to shared computers and servers - Apple Support
Other Options
If all of your computers are connected to iCloud under the same Apple ID, you could copy specific files which you want to share into iCloud Drive. iCloud Drive will keep changes to those files synchronized between all the Macs. (Note that you would not want to copy a database like the iTunes Library or Photos Library to iCloud Drive. There is a separate feature – iCloud Photos – that you can use to synchronize Photos libraries.)
If you just want to do a one-time transfer of files from the 2009 and 2014 Mac minis to the 2020 ones, you could copy files onto an external drive and transfer the external drive.