Apple hasn't included a quick start guide or for that matter any guide in new iPhone boxes for several years now.
From which country did you purchase your iPhone? If the US, there is no SIM tray in any iPhone sold in the US. In other countries there is a SIM tray. You don't need a sim tray tool. All you need is a paperclip to open the tray if your phone has one.
As to a user guide, for years, they are online. Here is a link for you --> iPhone User Guide - Apple Support
You can also bookmark the user guide to the Books app on your iPhone --> Read and bookmark the iPhone User Guide - Apple Support