Crazy eyes -Face ID no longer working with attention required feature

So it seems my IPhone automatically updated even though I have the setting turned off for automatic updates, but that is not my point. So suddenly yesterday my phone was not recognizing my face for Face ID. It won’t allow me to turn off attention required feature. It won’t recognize my face to reset it. My assumption is that it now requires me to be looking at the screen, but I have strabismus and both of my eyes won’t look at the screen at the same time ever. So, I can no longer use Face ID what - unless I have eye surgery???