What is "VPN"?
I'm not trying to contradict the previous suggestion. All of that is most certainly correct. It's just that VPN functionality has proven to be a very successful strategy to get scam software installed.
What I mean is that whatever is causing the problem on your computer probably isn't the VPN functionality itself. The problem is here:
i did transfer data from my old intel mac to this new apple M3 (dont know if this is the cause as i checked all apps are as per apple chips).
I don't know what you mean with that second part. But most likely, you have one or two dozen 3rd party system modification apps installed on that old computer. They probably aren't compatible with the new computer.
Apple updates the operating system every year. On top of that, Apple recently switch the entire system over to a new processor chip. These scam apps aren't interested in updating old apps. Once they've got your money, they're done with you. Those that are most successful and still in business may update their software just so they can keep collecting that $49.99 monthly subscription. But they don't actually improve anything. They slow your computer down. They want you to think that you need more "clean up", "tune up", or "speed up" apps.
And don't even get me started on 3rd party "security" or "privacy" apps. They give you neither. But they are closely related to the "clean up" and "tune up" industry.
Unfortunately, what this means is that you'll likely have to erase your new computer hard drive and reinstall the operating system. You can restore from backup, but when you restore, this time make sure to avoid restoring any software, apps, system settings, or "other files". You can manually reinstall only the 3rd party apps that you simply can't live without. Any kind of software mentioned in this thread is something that you can definitely live without.