How do I update iOS software on my iPhone?

Here is how to: Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

‘If your iPhone indicates you are current and the iOS version is prior to 18.5, then either there’s an old beta preventing the update, or your iPhone is old enough that it is not supported on newer iOS versions.

iPhone models prior to iPhone XS, iPhone XR, and iPhone SE 2nd gen will be limited to older iOS versions.

Follow these instructions to update your phone to the latest iOS which it is capable of running.

Older phones (iPhone X and earlier) are not able to run the most current iOS 18.x.

Update iOS on iPhone - Apple Support

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Try Updating Using your Computer:

Back Up First:

IMPORTANT: If you have an option to update, however, then be certain you backup your iPhone first. That way, you will have something to restore your iPhone from should anything go wrong with the update.

Then...

Proceed with the Update:

If any updates are available, they install, sure enough.

Use my User Tip:  Update your iPhone Using a Computer - User Tip

Can you please tell us what software version is currently installed on your iPhone?

Settings > General > About > iOS Version

Apple Vision Pro cannot be updated with iOS updates.

How to update visionOS automatically · Go to Settings > General > Software Update > Automatic Updates. · Turn on visionOS Updates. · Turn on ...

Update visionOS on your Apple Vision Pro

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