I will admit I accidentally jumped on the bandwagon and did the Tahoe upgrade, when it first came out. Not only did it start over heating my Mac Pro, it would also randomly restart, lag, not open apps, not save and corrupted my external used for time machine, to name a few issues. Went to Genius they reinstalled Tahoe and thought all fixed. It wasn't. When I asked about reloading Sequia I was told they no longer have it. I was finally able to figure out how to create startup with Sequoia and started from scratch. Fortunately I was able to access a back up from a few days before corruption. Things are much better. My issue now is that my phone, iPad, and laptop are not talking to each other very nicely until all updates are complete.
Yesterday I decided to take a chance and try again with Tahoe. Things are better-ish, but still going back to Sequia for now. Still having to many glitches, restarts, over heating you name it. At least this time I am prepared for the hassle of wiping and starting from scratch. I did see that mid December there is possibly another update/ patch crossing my fingers and sending positive thoughts to the universe.
And before anyone says anything about the cloud. I DO NOT USE THE CLOUD!!!!! It would be nice if Apple kept it easy to not use it without jumping through hoops to make sure it is all turned off. But that is a different rant for a different day.