Re: there is one thread on which I no longer have a new message field on my mac.
You may want to check whether Apple Support's online article can help:
Send an inline reply to a message on Mac - Apple Support
Eg: says:
- "Go to the Messages app
on your Mac. - Select a conversation.
- Control-click the message or attachment, then choose Reply.
- Tip: If you have a trackpad or a Magic Mouse, you can swipe right with two fingers on the message or attachment.
- Enter your message in the field at the bottom of the window, then press Return on your keyboard to send it.
Note: Everyone in a group conversation can see your inline reply. To reply privately, click the name of your group at the top of the conversation, Control-click the icon of the person you want to message privately, then choose Message.
If Apple Intelligence* is turned on, you can use it to suggest a reply to a message you receive. See Use Apple Intelligence in Messages."
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Else: We are all Apple users, like yourself, volunteering our time to do the best we can to assist. Sorry I don't have enough info. about the situation. Trying to trouble-shoot all the other possible causes / solutions, one by one is not economical for this method of communication.
If needed: Try contacting the experts on Apple's Messages support team:
Messages for iPhone, iPad, Apple Watch, and Mac - Official Apple Support