Here is a better wording of my previous post (I ran out of editing time on my previous post).
Another possible option would be to enable your old Mac to run "headless" and use File Sharing or Screen Sharing -
- Use File Sharing if you just want to "see" and manage files & folders on the old Mac from your new Mac
- Use Screen Sharing if you want to "see" the display of the old Mac and operate the old Mac from your new Mac
- Set up your old Mac using your HDMI Monitor with it.
- Enable File Sharing and Screen Sharing on your old Mac.
- Shut down the old Mac, power off and disconnect the HDMI monitor.
- Connect an HDMI Dummy Plug to the old Mac. This enables your old Mac to run "headless."
- Make sure both Macs are connected to the same network. Wired is highly preferred for Screen Sharing.
- Restart the old Mac.
- Connect the HDMI monitor to your new Mac.
- Restart the new Mac
- On your new Mac, open a File Sharing or Screen Sharing session to your old Mac.
If you want to try this option, make sure whatever HDMI Dummy Plug you get supports the resolution you want to use on your monitor and make sure to set Display Settings in both Macs for that resolution.
Here is an example of an HDMI Dummy Plug. I have not used it, so it's just an example, not a recommendation.