We, here, are not responsible for your frustrations, and we have not "updated the software" on your phone. And since this is a Community of users like you, Apple engineers don't read this stuff.
You should follow what LD150 kindly suggested. In addition, how is your iPhone storage? At Settings>General>iPhone Storage, my phone says 50.5 GB of 128 GB used. What does yours say? Do you have more than 10% free storage on your iPhone? How about at iCloud.com?
If you would like to make suggestions to Apple, go here:
Feedback - Photos - Apple
Hint: Remember that the person who reads your post probably is in no way connected with the cause of your rant, and threats may just get you to the trash faster.