only2goats wrote:
I'm a new Mac user
Note that the Mac handles menu bars a little differently than Windows does. Where Windows has separate menu bars for each application, attached to that application's windows, the Mac has a system menu bar, located at the top of the screen. It shows the menus for the current application. There are various ways to make the Finder the current application, but note that it is possible for an application that has no windows open to be the current one. (Like Chrome was in the screenshot that you posted.)
That may account for the trouble you had finding the Finder's Preferences.
You may find the following useful:
Mac User Guide - Apple Support
including the section:
Switched from Windows to Mac? - Apple Support
A lot of the pages of the Mac User Guide have pull-down menus that let you select the particular version of macOS you want to learn about. Some of the pages don't go back as far as Monterey, but many do.
I'm a long-time Windows user and I'm trying to learn this OS - MacBook Air Monterey 12.7.8.
[EDIT]. A Google search also turned up: Mac tips for Windows switchers - Apple Support .