Hello Old Toad, I thought of that, but could not find a way
to boot-up in Safe Mode when connected for screen sharing. The MacBook Pro never recognized the
connected Mac Mini in Safe Mode.
I did upgrade to OS 26.5 as suggested by MrHoffman, and worked
through the “Share the screen of another mac” document as suggested by den.thed;
but the problem remains.
Control of pointer size during screen sharing is a
continuing problem for Apple, at least in my experience.
Previously, I had an M1 Mac Mini (OS 13.7.8) with a headless
display emulator (Newer Tech HDMI 4K Display Emulator) connected via ethernet
to a 2012 27-inch iMac (OS 10.13.6). The
headless display resolution was set for 2560 x 1440. On that setup pointer size varied from small
(3 mm) then jumped to 9mm which could be incrementally increased further to
15mm. Three millimeter is too small and
15mm is too large, so 9mm was workable.
I was hoping that this idiosyncratic behavior had been
corrected with the advancing OSs, and the use of a more compatible platform for
the monitor, but it seems to be worse.
Cheers,
CEU2