The copy of your photo in this thread has had almost all of the metadata stripped out of it.
But on your iPhone or on your computer, you may be able to see more extensive metadata, including a line telling you whether the flash fired or not. I took this photo on my iPhone. The Mac got a synchronized copy (via iCloud Photos). I exported the photo as a JPG file, stripping only Location information, then examined it using Preview.

Note the line "Flash Off, did not fire" – which for this photo, is correct. If you examined your own photos in such a way, and they had the metadata, that would tell you whether flash was on.

Note: When I dragged-and-dropped the photo from my post to the Desktop and examined it, most of this metatdata was missing. It appears that the Apple Community forum software strips most of the metadata from uploaded photos - so we don't have a way of checking things like "Flash" settings that your iPhone may have recorded. But you should.