Re: "On the Lock Screen it says "Update Apple Account Settings". If I go into the SETTINGS, there is a red circle with a "1", says the same thing. If I tap that, the next screen says "Some account services require you to sign in again".
You may want to check which settings you have in place for using the App Store ... eg: You can review how your iPhone is set-up currently ... and if ScreenTime restrictions for apps are set, you can change them:
For iOS 18: Manage App Store purchases, settings, and restrictions on iPhone - Apple Support
Eg: says
Go to Settings
> Apps > App Store, then do any of the following:
- Automatically download apps purchased on your other Apple devices: Below Automatic Downloads, turn on App Downloads.
- Automatically update apps: Turn on App Updates.
- Download in-app content in the background: Turn on In-App Content to download content before you first open an app.
- Allow app downloads to use cellular data: Below Cellular Data, turn on Automatic Downloads. To choose whether you want to be asked for permission for downloads over 200 MB or all apps, tap App Downloads.
- Automatically play app preview videos: Turn on Video Autoplay.
- Automatically remove unused apps: Turn on Offload Unused Apps. You can reinstall an app at any time if it’s still available in the App Store.
- To prevent app offloading, turn off Offload Unused Apps.
Set content restrictions and prevent in-app purchases
After you turn on content and privacy restrictions, do the following:
- Go to Settings
> Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions, then turn on Content & Privacy Restrictions. - Tap iTunes & App Store Purchases, then choose restrictions for installing or deleting apps and in-app purchases.
- Tap App Store, Media, Web & Games, then choose age-appropriate restrictions such as the following:
- Apps: Restrict apps by age ratings.
- App Clips: Prevent App Clips from opening.
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Re: " I do not have 2 Factor turned on. I do not want to have to get a code at all kinds of times while using my phone or accessing things. That is why I always choose Do not 'upgrade' even though I do not consider that an upgrade. Anyway, I am sure that somehow Apple keeps doing this in an attempt to coerce me into accepting 2FA. How can I get it to leave me alone. "
"I know from a past experience many years ago, when my wife could not remember her password, repeated attempts keep extending the time between when you can make attempts."
It is your choice entirely:
(1) whether or not you turn on 2 Factor Authentication ...
( I understand that once 2FA is turned on it can no longer be turned off ... am happy with using it's protection, myself). When needed,
2FA verification codes can often be found in device settings now.
(2) whether or not you make use of Face ID to save entering passwords as often. (Am grateful my Mac uses fingerprint, and iPhone uses Face ID to save entering a password)