View your Purchase History here, and I recommend using the steps under: How to see your purchase history on your device. That will show you everything you have paid for linked to your Apple Account.
View your purchase history for the App Store and other Apple media services - Apple Support
If you are an Organizer of a Family Plan and use Purchase Sharing, members can make charges to your payment method. You can still view those purchases, but you would have to select that member when view your purchase history through Family Sharing.
For reviewing your subscriptions, that is done here:
View or cancel app subscriptions on iPhone - Apple Support
For subscriptions shared with a Family:
Share Apple and App Store subscriptions with family members on iPhone - Apple Support