I understand your point that Family Sharing is currently operating according to Apple’s design, and I agree that formal requests for Apple to change that design should also be submitted through Apple’s feedback channel.
However, I don’t think that makes this discussion “moot.” The original poster specifically asked how other large families are dealing with this limitation. That’s a perfectly legitimate topic for a community of Apple users, even if the underlying limitation isn’t a technical malfunction.
I also don’t think creating two separate Family Sharing groups can reasonably be described as “easily accommodating” a larger family. That workaround actually highlights the problem.
Apple designed Family Sharing around the concept of one family organizer, with another adult capable of being designated as a parent/guardian, while providing centralized access to parental controls, Screen Time, location sharing, purchases, subscriptions, and other family features. A person can also belong to only one Family Sharing group at a time.
So if two parents with five children have to divide their household into two separate Apple “families,” which children go with which parent? One parent can no longer be in the same Family Sharing group as some of their own children. The children aren’t all part of the same Apple family either. Shared purchases, subscriptions, location features, parental management, and other Family Sharing functionality are now fragmented across two groups.
That doesn’t really solve the problem; it works around the numerical limit by breaking up the very family structure the feature is supposed to represent.
And that’s precisely why “working as intended” isn’t the end of the discussion. Nobody is arguing that Apple’s software accidentally stops at six members. We’re questioning whether six should continue to be the maximum and whether Apple’s intended design adequately accommodates real households that exceed that number.
If licensing restrictions prevent Apple from simply extending every shared subscription beyond six people, that’s understandable. But Family Sharing encompasses considerably more than content licensing. Apple could separate the family management limit from certain subscription limits, offer additional paid member slots, create a larger family tier, or develop another solution. There are multiple ways to address the issue without expecting additional licensed content to be provided for free.
There’s also an interesting contradiction in suggesting that a seven-person household should create two artificial families to comply with the system. If the purpose of the six person restriction is to preserve the integrity of “Family Sharing,” intentionally dividing one actual family into two fictional family units hardly seems closer to the intended concept.
So yes, submitting feedback directly to Apple is appropriate, and I have done that. But discussing the limitation here, asking how other large families handle it, and questioning whether the current design makes sense are also entirely reasonable uses of a community forum.
A product can be working exactly as designed and still have a design limitation worth discussing.