Re: iPhone X, iOS 16: "Facetime/imessege: My DITO number is getting 'An error occurred during activation' for iMessage and FaceTime".
Apple support provides the troubleshooting article below to help with activation:
See what to do: If you can’t turn on or sign in to iMessage or FaceTime on your iPhone - Apple Support for the steps to follow.
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Re: "Please reset my activation." Then activation for my real number *** please"
As Apple users, just as you are, in the community, no-one here has access to your devices, accounts, or details. Also, Apple Support is unlikely to see your post to us.
If you need more support:
Apple provides a Messages Support website (info, / support / contact options etc.)
Messages for iPhone, iPad, Apple Watch, and Mac - Official Apple Support