How to start a new text thread/conversation with someone you have texted for years?

How do I start a new text conversation with a friend so that my friend will not see the new conversation appended to any previous conversation with that friend? Apple's web site instructions did not work. When I 'compose' a new text, the app automatically appends and displays this new conversation to the previous one when my friend views the new incoming text. Next I deleted the old conversation. When I created the new text, I did not see the old conversation; however, the recipient received the new text as a continuation of a previous thread. In simple terms how do two people start a new text thread such that the new text thread does not appear appended to another conversation thread which has been open for years and years. New text thread, get it? NEW TEXT THREAD - even if the recipient has been getting texts from you since the beginning of texting phones. (am I asking too much? am I the only one who values such a feature?)

Posted on Aug 21, 2026 12:42 PM

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Posted on Aug 21, 2026 3:44 PM

HuntCC wrote:
How do I start a new text conversation with a friend so that my friend will not see the new conversation appended to any previous conversation with that friend? Apple's web site instructions did not work. When I 'compose' a new text, the app automatically appends and displays this new conversation to the previous one when my friend views the new incoming text. Next I deleted the old conversation. When I created the new text, I did not see the old conversation; however, the recipient received the new text as a continuation of a previous thread. In simple terms how do two people start a new text thread such that the new text thread does not appear appended to another conversation thread which has been open for years and years. New text thread, get it? NEW TEXT THREAD - even if the recipient has been getting texts from you since the beginning of texting phones. (am I asking too much? am I the only one who values such a feature?)

Messages doesn’t support multiple threads per recipient, and doesn’t really even have a concept of threads.


Each message is self-contained, and ephemeral.


Each message sent has no connection to the other messages, or to the history.


You do see your own history of previous messages, but the recipient can have already deleted their copy of their own messages history. Or not. And you can’t change what the recipient sees here either, past the message-deletion window. They don’t see your history, and you don’t see theirs.


Your available option is to delete your own history — which effects your history but won’t effect anybody else and that whether individually or in a group — or to start a new conversation with your friend using a second and unrelated email address or number for them. They would need to have a home account and a work account, for instance, and those two carefully kept separate in your own Contacts.


Log feedback with Apple, as was also sagely suggested.

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Aug 21, 2026 3:44 PM in response to HuntCC

HuntCC wrote:
How do I start a new text conversation with a friend so that my friend will not see the new conversation appended to any previous conversation with that friend? Apple's web site instructions did not work. When I 'compose' a new text, the app automatically appends and displays this new conversation to the previous one when my friend views the new incoming text. Next I deleted the old conversation. When I created the new text, I did not see the old conversation; however, the recipient received the new text as a continuation of a previous thread. In simple terms how do two people start a new text thread such that the new text thread does not appear appended to another conversation thread which has been open for years and years. New text thread, get it? NEW TEXT THREAD - even if the recipient has been getting texts from you since the beginning of texting phones. (am I asking too much? am I the only one who values such a feature?)

Messages doesn’t support multiple threads per recipient, and doesn’t really even have a concept of threads.


Each message is self-contained, and ephemeral.


Each message sent has no connection to the other messages, or to the history.


You do see your own history of previous messages, but the recipient can have already deleted their copy of their own messages history. Or not. And you can’t change what the recipient sees here either, past the message-deletion window. They don’t see your history, and you don’t see theirs.


Your available option is to delete your own history — which effects your history but won’t effect anybody else and that whether individually or in a group — or to start a new conversation with your friend using a second and unrelated email address or number for them. They would need to have a home account and a work account, for instance, and those two carefully kept separate in your own Contacts.


Log feedback with Apple, as was also sagely suggested.

Aug 21, 2026 12:50 PM in response to HuntCC

The short answer is that you don't. You can delete everything on your phone and it will appear as a new thread to you. However, you cannot delete what is already on the other person's phone. They would also have to delete the thread.


You can let Apple know it's a feature you would like to see here:


Product Feedback - Apple


I don't see the need for it personally but I'm sure you're not the only person out of billions who would like this.

Aug 21, 2026 2:46 PM in response to Lawrence Finch

Thanks for the reply, but it misses the point. The question is not about legality. The question is why can't two people start a NEW text conversation between themselves instead of the current Apple model which appends every new text to person A to one long continuous conversation containing thousands of texts sent between the two parties for the past umpteen years. My wife and I have a text thread going back ages. Why can't we start with a "blank sheet of paper"? With email, I can start a new email conversation independent of any email I had previously sent that person. It seems logical and reasonable for many users, that texting should not one long continuous scrollable conversation for years.

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