I don't know why Kurt's command isn't working for you -- are you copying and pasting it in, or just typing it? You must put it in exactly as written observing case and any spaces -- and I don't know if this will make any difference, but TinkerTool, a free little program, will allow you to hide and show invisible files with an easy to use interface.
http://www.bresink.com/osx/TinkerTool.html
(Keep the .dmg somewhere for future use, or just keep the program icon in the Dock -- it doesn't get installed in Applications. It gets mounted newly each time you need to use it.)
After you have it open, go to Finder in the MenuBar and select "Show hidden and system files," then hit "relaunch Finder." In your situation, I'm not certain whether this will now show all hidden files or not. If it shows them, then uncheck "Show hidden...." and relaunch the Finder again. All the hidden files should now be restored to their usual invisibility.
If not, then something is amiss.