This might be slightly unrelated but ill post incase it may help someone.
I recently added an AP Express to my AP Extreme network via Ethernet.
So I ran a ethernet cable to the other side of the house, plugged the network cable into the Express and configured to extend my existing wireless network.
(Just FYI: If you are in my situation and want to extend your wifi range using an AP express. Use "Create a wireless network" option.
Example:
Modem <--> AP Extreme (WiFi Enabled) <-------other side of home ethernet cable-----> AP Express (WiFi Enabled)
Let the airport utility configure it for you as long as the network cable is plugged in before setting up. Otherwise the AP Express network mode must be "Create a wireless network" with the same network name as the Extreme.)
As soon as I hooked it up i started experiencing massive lag to the outside world. I couldn't figure it out, i did soft resets on all my devices, hard resets on all my devices, a change for a small amount of time, then back to square 1....
Took me ALL day to figure this out, using several notebooks plugged into various places around the home to isolate the issue.
Just for ***** and giggles. try disconnecting various machines from the network/wifi one at a time while running ping tests (LAN and WAN).
You might get a surprise.
Turned out for me, it was just a freak co-incidence.
Turned off my iMac 27" - Everything went to normal... I was CONVINCED it was the AP Express.
Opened Activity Monitor, check the "Network" tab.... Two processes were smashing my bandwidth.... (I have 100Mbit internet)
1: cloudd
2: nsurlsessiond
Both were causing the issue for me. I force quit them, problem gone... they kept coming back.
Checked online, its to do with iCloud Drive and iCloud Photos.
Opened System Preferences.....
Disabled iCloud Photo Library (Beta).
Problem solved.
I can walk to the other side of my house where the Express is, it automatically switches over to that WiFi... speedtest.net and pull 110mbit results.
Im sorry to hear everyone else has issues extending an AP Extreme or Time Cap via AP Express Ethernet. I connect a ton of them up at customers houses that way and they always work flawlessly. Its my "go to" for extending a home wifi without fuss.
I hope this helps anyone out there. Took me hours or isolation tests and scratching my head....
Peace.