GMail "Delete" button doesn't
2.4 MBP, Mac OS X (10.6.4)
2.4 MBP, Mac OS X (10.6.4)
I don't know if you are still having trouble with this but this has been bugging me for some time too. On my iPhone, I can get it to do exactly what I want. I tap the trash can button and it deletes the email and then if I were to log on to Gmail via the web, then the message has been MOVED to the Trash and is not in the inbox view and not in archived the All Mail folder (provided you turn off Archive Messages as shown here http://support.apple.com/kb/HT4207).
However, as you note, using the OS X Mail, when you click delete, it may remove it from the Gmail inbox on the web but it is still archived in the All Mail folder (ie it just removes the inbox label).
Here is what I figured out. In your Mail preferences under Mailbox Behaviors, do not check either box under Trash options. Now when you are using Mail on OS X, rather than hitting the delete key or clicking the trash can, drag and drop the message to the "Trash" sub folder under [Gmail]. This will move the message to the trash in Mail as well as iOS Mail AND also on the Gmail server if you were to log in using a web browser. It still leaves the "inbox" label on it and if you are playing around and testing it out as you do it, you will see the message still in the inbox view on the web for anywhere from a few seconds to maybe several mins (must be some delay). But eventually the deleted message will be removed from the inbox view and will only appear in the Trash (and not All Mail) just as if you had deleted it normally while using a web browser.
Also any sent messages that are not grouped/threaded will probably need to be deleted the same way, drag and drop it to the trash.
Hope that helps. I sent Apple feedback suggesting that they enhance the OS X Mail protocols to mimic that of iOS since iOS seems to actually be a little more advanced - like maybe build in that off/on toggle for archiving mail like the iOS proeferences. Right iOS is just better for managing/organizing IMAP Gmail as it seems to work just like using the web browser.
Hope that helps. I sent Apple feedback suggesting that they enhance the OS X Mail protocols to mimic that of iOS since iOS seems to actually be a little more advanced - like maybe build in that off/on toggle for archiving mail like the iOS proeferences. Right iOS is just better for managing/organizing IMAP Gmail as it seems to work just like using the web browser.
Certainly hope not. Don't appreciate the iOS (simplification/dummyfication) invasion into a well functioning OS for computers. I do not want my iMac to resemble or act like a 27" iPhone. If I want a device with the iOS system (which is, from what I've read, a simplified version of the Mac OS), I will buy one.
GMail "Delete" button doesn't