Not sure what happened to the rest of this discussion, but I've been following intently looking for the answers to Cralos' stated and implied questions, not only on this, but several other other support sites and threads. In the end, the one person I thought might provide good guideance, Chris CA, turned out to be just like any other "no-answer Best Buy/Apple employee", sticking to his guns no matter what the real needs or worries of his customers really are. Yes, I know you are not employed by either of those companies, and I mean no offense, just stating it like it is. I find people LIKE you the most uncaring and least knowledgeable.
Although tensions escalated during the last few posts, I can totally relate to OpieM's frustration. Do they really not get it? In my family, as I'm sure in many, many other families, and for the LAST SEVERAL YEARS since iTunes required an account username and password to make purchases, we've shared that username and password on every device we've added to our collection: iPhones, iPod Touches, and more recently, iPads. Any purchase made went onto the device of whichever family member made the purchase. If the other's wanted it too, now it was available for free to download on their device. Our most shared device, the iPad, has only family-oriented apps, songs, and books on it, and that's the way I want to keep it.
Over the span of those last few years I've made purchases on my iPhone that were meant for my eyes only (my iPhone is the only device I share only occasionally). I tried them out, kept them if I liked them, DELETED them if I didn't, content in the knowledge that it was gone forever from both MY device and MY computer, never to be SEEN or HEARD from again. Why resurrect something I had every intention of REMOVING?
I did always know there was a purchase history list accessible throught the iTunes account, but have you seen that list? It's so convoluted that I have never really been concerned about anyone taking the time to browse through it. Even I attempted several searches and gave up almost immediately.
As my life practically revolves around my iPhone, imagine my surprise when I woke up a couple of days ago to find THAT list of purchases, the good and the not so good, readily available for re-download! And not just on my iPhone, but on all our devices including that family-only gadget, the iPad!
Who gave Apple permission to present my family with this list? And in such a graphic format? I most certainly DID NOT! I DID NOT request it, I WAS NOT informed ahead of time it would be installed or the contents of what would be installed, I WAS NOT asked if it was ok to "upgrade", I WAS NOT given the opportunity to opt out, and I WAS NOT even given the option to select a setting to prevent it form showing up.
Even the fact that it's free doesn't make it better.
And now, on display for all in my family and guests to see, is this list of previously purchased items I never intended for them to see.
"Log out every time from now on", you suggest. Why? What's the point when my whole family has the password to an otherwise clean and private account Why go through the hassle of all the steps it takes to log out, when only one is required to log right back in? Besides, without a list of previously purchased items so easily displayed, I wouldn't NEED to do this just to prevent them from seeing it.
"Change your password", you reply. Why? My whole family shares in this account. If they want to make purchases, they'll need the password eventually. This is the way we've always done it, and I'd like to keep it that way.
"Create a new account", you insist. Why? That would mean them losing access to everything they've already purchased.
Really, of all the updates and upgrades I have seen Apple dish out on it's customers, this one is by far the one that baffles me the most. Not sure what all this venting will accomplish. Just glad I'm not the only one feeling the frustration. For those out there that still wish to contribute, I hope this gives you the "real world family" scenario that most of us live in. Hopefully you'll be more understanding when you decide to suggest your solutions to this problem Apple just unleashed on us.