Hi all,
Thanks for the replies. I realized I confused my question in a few ways.
Specifically, I made a mistake using the word "paired" when I just meant that I am looking for an inexpensive IR remote to have Apple TV learn as several of you have recommended above.
For those reading who don't know about this feature it's explained here:
http://support.apple.com/kb/HT3296
Now I went ahead after writing my original post and ordered the Xbox DVD remote because it was so cheap and also IR but ... it doesn't work, the Apple TV doesn't pick it up at all.
So again (hopefully I'm more articulate this time): *I'm interested to hear the names and model numbers of some simple remotes that folks have used with this feature.*
I found this old MacLife article:
http://www.maclife.com/article/howtos/takecontrol_your_apple_tv_your_universalremote
that lists an old Sony DVD/VCR remote that worked for them so I might track down that on Amazon or Ebay but if there are any other suggestions out there I'd appreciate hearing them.
Eventually of course, I'll get an Iphone or Ipod touch and install the remote app, but financially that's still not in the cards for me for a while.
Thanks for the help!