Turns out there's a thread that describes the root cause of why my Mac Mini kept going off-line
here. Bottom line is either a flaky ethernet adapter or Mac OS X that doesn't throttle back the ethernet speed to match cable and switch capabilities. I manually changed the Mac Mini's ethernet speed to 100baseTX (down from Automatically=1000baseT), and my Mac Mini has been up and running/available via ARD for several days.
Another solution is to buy a $29 USB to Ethernet adapter and use it instead of the hard-wired ethernet port. I believe the USB to Ethernet adapter maxes out at 100baseTX, so there's no increase in speed over my manual override, but if the ethernet port on the Mac Mini dies entirely, this would be a less expensive option than replacing the motherboard (ethernet port on Mac Mini is soldered onto motherboard).
Will ship my Mac Mini back to the remote location next week, and see how it goes. Nice to get to the bottom of things, but not happy that this issue (bad ethernet port) has been lurking around the Mini for several years, and I'm not able to get Gigabit speeds.
The link I posted above wasn't working initially. Here's the URL:
http://discussions.apple.com/thread.jspa?messageID=6335353�
Message was edited by: William W. Higgins Jr.