Hi
Rather than using Server Admin it's generally agree to use the command line instead.
sudo mailq
This command flushes the mail queue
sudo postfix flush
To re-queue the mail queue
sudo postsuper -r ALL
Command to see what's in the mail queue
sudo postqueue -p
Command to delete everything in the mail queue
sudo postsuper -d ALL
If you've got lots in there it will take some time. You might benefit by stopping the mail service first:
sudo serveradmin stop mail
Use this command to restart the service afterwards:
sudo serveradmin start mail
If you've got a lot of mail in there it will take the time it takes. You will need some patience. This link discusses how you can secure your mail server:
http://osx.topicdesk.com/content/view/38/41/
Some friendly advice. Secure your server further by placing it behind a firewall. Only open ports required by the Mail Service. If you have to open ssh secure it by using ssh-keygens and disable sshd passwords. Beef up all your passwords.
My 2p.
Tony